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Sidney & Friends





Director: Tristan Aitchison

Genre: documentary
Run-time: 1 hour 15 min

Language: English, Swahili, with Romanian and English subtitles


When his family tries to kill him, Sidney, who is intersex, flees to Nairobi where he meets a group of transgender friends. Together, they fight discrimination and discover life, love and self-worth.


Sidney grew up in rural western Kenya. He didn’t like wearing skirts or doing chores that girls are traditionally supposed to do, preferring herding cattle and playing football. Sidney was born intersex, but Sidney only knew he was different. Growing up, he found these differences increasingly made him stand out in the community, a source of concern to family members that manifested itself into chastisement, castigation, and hate.


His family say he is possessed by demons, demons that make him want to become a man. When Sidney fled from his family’s prejudice, he was forced from slum to slum, stripped in public and beaten. His life changed when he eventually met a group of transgender friends. For the first time in his life, Sidney was no longer alone…


Feature documentary SIDNEY & FRIENDS is a heartfelt exploration of the hopes, dreams, and everyday reality of a group of intersex and transgender friends fighting to survive on the edge of Kenyan society. Join Sidney and his new friends as they share what it is like to grow up and live as a gender minority, in a region known for prejudice and discrimination against its LGBTI population. Filmed over 3 years, our friends reveal the secrets of their struggles with poignancy and sometimes also humour. The premise is simple; it’s about gender, friendship…and love.


BFI FLARE – London, United Kingdom, 2018


Translations: 13th Seattle Transgender Film Festival – Seattle, United States, 2018


Afrykamera – Warsaw, Poland, 2018

LGBT Film Festival – Warsaw, Poland, 2018


Transgender Film Festival – Kiel, Germany, 2018 – WINNER – BEST DOCUMENTARY

Festival Internacional de Cinema Social de Catalunya (CLAM) – Manresa, Spain, 2018 – WINNER – BEST FILM

Sole Luna Documentary Film Festival – Palermo, Italy, 2018 – Nominated Best Film (Human Rights)


Queer Vision – Bristol, United Kingdom, 2018

NEWFEST – New York, United States, 2018 – Grand Jury Prize Best Documentary